How to Seduce Men without Them Realizing It

June 4th, 2007 by

For centuries, women have fine tuned their skills of seduction. Do not fear if you have not been privy to their methods before. We’ll tell you exactly how to seduce men… without them realizing that you’re doing it!

Take Charge

Men often like to be in control of a relationship or scenario, but they can feel wildly seduced if you suddenly turn the tables on them and become the domineering seductress. For instance, the moment your guy opens the door, you can start telling him exactly what both of you are going to do. Have a plan and stick to it. He will be drooling before long, totally fascinated by your “take charge” attitude.

Feel Sexy

If you don’t feel sexy, you will never succeed at learning how to seduce men. And sexiness is not a size or a certain “look”. It is an attitude. You have to get to a point where you can look in the mirror and state, “I’m sexy! I deserve to be treated well!” It’ll be tough to convince someone else that you’re sexy or seductive until you feel worthy of a guy’s attention,.

Be Coy

Yeah, guys have a tendency to go to strip clubs. But real seduction is not about pole dancing or nudity. It’s about being “unattainable.” For example, the next time you’re out to dinner with your dude, slip off your shoes and play with his thighs. He will not be able to do anything about his physical urges, and you will appear to be the most seductive female he’s ever encountered.

Be Smart

Long gone are the days of the â€œdumb blondeâ€ getting all the guys attention. Todayâ€™s sexy gal is cultured, smart and witty. Guys are now attracted to women who are smart and brainy!

Be Unpredictable

It is time to surprise your man and make him wonder, “Is she really the same gal I’ve been dating?” If you’ve never worn fishnets, put some on the next time you two go out for a drink. Or wear leopard-print teddies instead of the ho-hum pajamas with the holes in them. Every time you step outside your “comfort zone” and try something new, you will force your fellow to respond in a new way, too. Who knows what the night could bring if you decide to answer the door sans clothing?

Have Fun

Finally, if you want to know how to seduce men, you must be willing to have fun. Enjoy yourself! Being a sultry miss should be a cool experience, not one you will fear about. Allow yourself to play and be a bit silly; guys like gals who can “let go” once in a while.

Now, go out there and start seducing some men (or the special someone currently in your life) right now!
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